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Tuesday, 18 April 2017

Read Joy Isi Bewaji's Reaction To Davido's Brother's Infamous Post.

Joy Isi Bewaji's Reaction To Davido's brother's post

Joy Isi Bewaji, Managing Director at Happenings Radio,addressed a SnapChat video by Davido's elder brother, Adewale Adeleke, in which he shared a photo of his dogs' meal and said his dogs feed better than some people. She stressed that is isn't cool to try to rub off one's success on the face of others by making them feel you are better than them.

#ALAL Inbox- "Should I Tell Him, Even As I know He Might Love Another?"

Should I tell him? A lady and and life


Someone from Instagram sent this in. 

 Bode was my high school sweetheart. We were both in SS2 when we fell playfully in love. He attended St.Finbarrs school around Akoka and I went to a public school around Gbagada. 

His school was the happening school around my axis then. We rarely saw each other, except on days when Lagos State Government would organize maybe a debate or something, thn we wuld talk..After he graduated, he got into Unilag and I got into Unilorin. I'm in my 300'l now. We still keep in touch. Sometimes, he will call and we talk for long.

Sunday, 16 April 2017

#ALAL Woman Of The Week.

Adenike Ruff N' Tumble
Adenike Ogunlesi is the founder of Ruff 'n' Tumble


 After dropping out of undergraduate Law program at the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria in Nigeria, Adenike joined a tiny tailoring shop as the second member of staff, after her mother. In this shop, she found her calling and in 1996, her entrepreneurial spirit. She began selling the clothes she made from a suitcase and eventually turned Ruff N’ Tumble into a widely recognisable children’s brand across West Africa. She was

Wednesday, 12 April 2017

“I Want Girls To Reject Likeablity” – Chimamanda Adichie Speaks On How To Raise A Feminist


In an interview at the Women in the World Summit in New York City, Chimamanda shared her thoughts on the new wave of feminism – even in the Trump era.  

ON REJECTING LIKE-ABILITY 

 There’s a terrible, dangerous, cultural mindset that says to women, ‘You need to be liked.’ I think it’s nice to be liked, we all like to be liked, even men, everybody. But it is women who are raised with that and we internalize it and so it ships everything we do.

Should A Woman Have 365 Bras For The Whole Year?

A Lady And Life

“I never wear bra again after wearing it once. I wonder how women wash and re-wash one bra. That’s cheap and gross! Braziers were meant to be worn once and then discarded. If you don’t have 365 braziers in your closet for the whole year like I do, then you are not a complete woman! Yes…..I said it”

Tuesday, 11 April 2017

He Thought He Was Too Ugly For Me.

He Is Sad Because Of A Girl


Girls are not the only ones who develop low self-esteem. The only difference I think, is that when it comes to display of emotions, girls loves to express it more. We do not believe in suppressing emotions... 

Whether we show it when we are around people or in the confines of our room, we show it still... Now, I for one, have seen people exhibit various forms of emotion and I've seen them dry up their tears too,boys and girls alike, when it hits you, all those macho-macho wings would be cut short.

Saturday, 8 April 2017

Why I Wrote You A Love Letter.



Jideofor My Love,

 By now you must have seen what I consider my heart's tale. I feel so calm, knowing that as your eyes move end to end, taking in my words, that your heart would be in motion too..

 Don't Talk Jideofor, don't talk. Let us have this conversation as one. I would speak for us. 

 You see, I didn't know what love was. Didn't feel it, didn't have the pleasure of experiencing heart leaps, until I met you. You d not know what you have done for me ,Obim. 

Wednesday, 5 April 2017

When In FUTO ........Episode 8.

A Lady And Life
Click HERE to read the last episode of this series.


It had been Four months since the Ifeyinwa accepted to date Chuka. Two months of fresh air and difference. One would have thought that with his constant visits to her room, and their meetings in FUTO love garden turned prayer garden, Ifeyinwa's attention to her studies would have suffered. But it did not. She was the talk of the whole class. The maths lecturer, Professor Ikemefuna had just released the results of the Maths test and she garnered a total of 97%. Everything seemed beautiful at this time of her life.